Judg 12:1-6 The men of Ephraim called out their forces, crossed over to Zaphon and said to Jephthah, "Why did you go to fight the Ammonites without calling us to go with you? We're going to burn down your house over your head." Jephthah answered, "I and my people were engaged in a great struggle with the Ammonites, and although I called, you didn't save me out of their hands. When I saw that you wouldn't help, I took my life in my hands and crossed over to fight the Ammonites, and the Lord gave me the victory over them. Now why have you come up today to fight me?" Jephthah then called together the men of Gilead and fought against Ephraim. The Gileadites struck them down because the Ephraimites had said, "You Gileadites are renegades from Ephraim and Manasseh." The Gileadites captured the fords of the Jordan leading to Ephraim, and whenever a survivor of Ephraim said, "Let me cross over," the men of Gilead asked him, "Are you an Ephraimite?" If he replied, "No," they said, "All right, say 'Shibboleth.'" If he said, "Sibboleth," because he could not pronounce the word correctly, they seized him and killed him at the fords of the Jordan. Forty-two thousand Ephraimites were killed at that time.
Here we have the tragic byproduct of success--envy and jealousy. The Ephraimites felt offended that Jephthah left them out of the battle. The result was an episode of fratricide that left 42,000 Ephraimites dead. The killing of the Ephraimites hinges on their ability to pronounce the word "shibboleth" correctly. The Ephraimites would pronounce shibboleth as sibboleth - that was enough warrant to be killed. This was an unnecessary war between brothers--and the Church has its share of such fratricidal conflicts in its 2,000 years history: wars, inquisitions, persecutions over petty differences. The Church has its own shibboleths too, often triggered by envy and jealousy over other brothers' success in their ministry.
Envy and jealousy are often unseen motives for much of our angry actions and angry words. In the case of the Ephraimites, their envy and jealousy led to an act of war between brothers aggravated by the following angry words:
(1) Threatening Words ("We're going to burn down your house over your head"): There is no justification for such threats except that they were venting their own sense of outrage of being excluded in Gilead's success. But angry words are dangerous because they can lead to conflicts that may engulf many innocent bystanders. In the church, angry words have split the church and caused outsiders to become disillusioned about the Church and Christianity.
(2) Hurtful Words ("You Gileadites are renegades from Ephraim and Manasseh."): That was the last straw for Jephthah. It was bad that the Ephraimites crossed over the Jordan with their forces, but now they added insult to injury with their hurtful words by calling the Gileadites "renegades" of Ephraim and Manasseh. Now the pride of Gileadites was hurt and the retaliation was deadly: 42,000 Ephraimites were dead before the fire died down.
(3) Divisive Words ("All right, say 'Shibboleth.'"): Though Gilead was from the Ephraim and Manasseh, but because they lived on the east side of the Jordan, some words were pronounced differently. In particular, the word "shibboleth" was pronounced differently by the Gileadites from the Ephraimites who said it as "sibboleth." But that distinction was enough to get the Ephraimites killed.
Thankfully in Singapore, because of close proximity and constant interactions, Christians from different denominations are coming together in unity, especially in the workplaces, to reach those who are still outside the kingdom. But in many parts of the world (including Asia), denominations have their shibboleths that separate brothers from brothers. Denominational competition in the mission field is a sad expression of pride, envy and jealousy. We focus too much on what divide us (we called them "distinctives") rather than what should unite us - the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
May the Lord's Prayer in John 17 for the unity of the church be answered in our generation. Let's put aside our doctrinal and denominational shibboleths and come together against our common Enemy, the Devil.
Father, may You deliver us from our shibboleths, so that we may fulfill Your mission as one body in Christ. Amen.